Roses & Thorns

Roses & Thorns

By; Lillian Carol Russell

So sad to watch good love go bad, these words from an old song spring forth so often lately as I watch a friend in pain.. Stay away from the thorns I keep saying. I listened to Charles Stanley when I drove the mail route every day and he was a great teacher & the Bible was his lesson book. It tell us, things that are good, things that are pure, things that are of good report, think on these things. Good things are the roses, when we let ourselves dwell on bad thoughts, those are the thorns. When we dwell on what we have lost, what is no longer ours, those thoughts will prick us and hurt us and bring us to tears.
Without storms there would never be rainbows, we are given a time of pain in our lives to toughen us up and only those we love are able to inflict the worst of pain. Sometimes they die, sometimes they just change and choose to go in another direction. If life cuts a new channel like a river changing course during a flood, it will be hard to adjust, it will be strange, but remember God does all things well and He makes no mistakes. All things are done for a reason, we may not see it now, we may not see it in the near future, we may never know why He takes someone from us. When someone dies, it might be that they were saved from facing a great pain or illness, taken on to enjoy the glory of heaven. We weep not for them but for our own selfish reasons. When someone we love decides they no longer want to be with us, that too is death, death of a relationship and the pain is perhaps just as unbearable because it is so hard to understand.
All I can say is that time truly does heal all wounds. Stay away from the thorns, look for roses, the thorns will always be there ready to prick you, but you must be careful not to dwell on them.